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They
have gone to school. They have high profile jobs and are probably driving the
latest cars. But behind the shiny curtains, educated women engage in cheating
more than their less educated or uneducated counterparts, according to the
newly-released results of the Uganda Demographic and Health Survey (UDHS).

The survey,
conducted by the Uganda Bureau of Statistics (UBOS) with the support of various
development agencies.

Whereas 1.1%
of uneducated women reported to have had sexual intercourse with two or more
partners, the figure was 1.7% for women with primary education and 2% for those
with secondary education and above.

Out of over
8,000 women interviewed, 182 women indicated that they had had more than one
sexual partner during the previous months, with the highest number being in
central region and east central (Busoga).

However, less
than one third of them used a condom with the additional sexual partner. On
average, most women interviewed had had two to three sexual partners in their
lifetime. 

Contrary to
the situation among women, educated men had fewer partners than their
uneducated colleagues. However, men remained more promiscuous than women. The
proportion of men with multiple sexual partners varied from 18% among men with
secondary education or higher, 19% among those with primary education and 36%
among the uneducated.

The bureau
obtained the data by confidentially interviewing a sample of 8,674 women aged
15 – 49 countrywide, from June to December 2011. The respondents were carefully
sampled to represent the situation in Uganda. They were asked various questions
including their backgrounds and various health topics such as family planning,
sexual behaviour, knowledge about HIV/AIDS, parenting matters and knowledge
about tuberculosis.

Why would an
educated woman have more sexual partners?
Traditionally,
in most Ugandan cultures, it was considered appropriate for a man to have
several women while a woman had to stick to one man.

However,
sociologists argue that due to education and the women’s liberation movements,
many women have started competing with men. “Some women will argue that if men
have the right to sleep around, so should women,” says  Laura Aryijuka, a
sociologist and psychology graduate student at Kyambogo University.

She, however,
cautioned that women will usually tell a lie if asked how many sexual partners
they have had. Aryijuka observes that cheating could be more common among
educated women because education enables them to be more assertive and exposed.

“Unlike in
the past, most women don’t have sengas to advise them. Those days a girl in
Kabale would be killed for getting pregnant. But now, this educated girl feels
it is her life. They’ve realised that sex is fun and pleasurable and society
doesn’t even reprimand them,” says Aryijuka.

Due to
exposure, educated women come under pressure from men virtually every day and
in the long run, some end up succumbing. Some want to postpone marriage while pursuing
studies, but end up feeling lonely and getting a relationship to fill that
void. At that time, she might not even think about a man’s commitment to
marriage because she is still pursuing education.

“It mainly
occurs when in this confusion of feeling lonely emotionally; so many men are
presenting proposals; you have the supervisor at university wanting to sleep
with her, then her boss, her colleagues.” Says Josiah Muwanga, a counselling
psychologist with Life Ministries Kiwatule.
Muwanga
reveals that one woman told him during his counselling sessions that out of
“confusion”, she had three sexual partners concurrently.

Dr. Medard
Bitekyerezo, a member of the parliamentary HIV/AIDS committee, is surprised by
the findings. “If that is what UBOS has found out in their research, it is very
unfortunate for this country, because women are the custodians of our
families,” he says.

Emmanuel
Dombo, the Bunyole East legislator says: “We are having more educated women who
are not married. Men fear to marry highly educated women. And this could give
them the opportunity to have more sexual partners.”

Women
activists view
Solome
Nakaweesi Kimbugwe of the Uganda Women’s Network argues that the results should
not be an excuse for men to make unreasonable controls on women. In any case,
she argues, an overwhelming majority of women do not cheat on their partners.

“When you
jump on a bus to go for a workshop upcountry, people will think you have a
partner there. The men who used to go for workshops probably ended up hooking
up with other partners, so they think women are doing the same,” she says.

Nakaweesi
says because the educated woman talks more openly about sexuality, people think
she is promiscuous. “If I wanted more sex, I would say it frankly. If I am not
enjoying sex, I would still say it. Unfortunately, when you say your mind out,
there is a problem, because everyone thinks a good woman does not talk about
sex,” she says.

She worries
that these statistics in a way downplay the gains brought by more women going
to school and emancipation. “It is like you are telling someone down in the
village not to send their daughters to school because they will be
promiscuous,” she says.

Nakaweesi
says there is need for UBOS to carry out their research using the social media
like Facebook and Twitter to get the general view on topical
behavioural issues.
“You cannot
use just the traditional methods of asking people at the grassroots because
that is in a way biased. Use Facebook and you would be surprised by
the  results.”

The general
manager at UBOS, Geoffrey Nnabongo says they will release a more detailed
report later this year to explain the results
Source: New Vision

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